♠ Play Freely. ♥ Play Hard. ♦ Play Safe. ♣ Play Again.
Curated, discreet, play gatherings for 18+ men, held regularly in Sydney.
What is Players Lounge?
The Players Lounge is a regular private event by men, for men. It’s a body-positive space to get together for men to connect, explore sexual desires and enjoy themselves in a safe, welcoming environment.
All men are welcome. Every attendee must become a Players Lounge member to attend events, ensuring the space remains welcoming and respectful to all ages and sizes.
Venue access details are only sent to men officially registered to the Players Lounge.
Our Values
Body Positivity
Privacy & Consent
Curated Community
Celebrating all bodies and fostering inclusive environments where everyone is valued.
Maintaining the highest standards of discretion and ensuring all interactions are consensual.
Building meaningful connects through a careful curation of men with shared values and desires.
Join the Guest List
We ask a few respectful questions to ensure comfort, discretion and a great mix at every party. Once you’re confirmed, upcoming event notices will be sent via email.
House Rules
What happens at a Players Lounge night
Game begins at a home or hotel.
- Round 1 – Get to know guys over a drink whilst people are arriving in lounge.
- Round 2 – Once all arrive its clothes off for all.
- Round 3 – When the game takes you, move to the dedicated play space for fun times.
Each event is a no fuss, zero attitude environment. Get to know the other guys, and whether you decide to join in, or enjoy from afar, the choice is yours with zero pressure.
We’re here to have a fun and relaxed time after all. You are expected to arrive promptly at the noted start time, and we’ll always do our best to balance the number of preferred sexual positions so everyone enjoys themselves equally. Each party is designed to go for roughly 2-3 hours at a time.
Who can attend?
Men aged 18 and up. If you enjoyed yourself, refer others (just make sure they sign up to the list).
How do you keep events private?
Discretion is paramount to the Players Lounge. Venue details are only shared with approved guests 24-48 hours before each event. We have a strict no-photos policy, and all attendees agree to respect each other’s privacy. What happens at the Players Lounge stays at the Players Lounge.
What are the rules around consent?
Consent is the foundation of event. “No” means no, always. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for any behavior that makes others uncomfortable. Our space is built on mutual respect and ensuring everyone feels safe to be themselves. You’re free to communicate at all times your boundaries without hesitation.
What's forbidden at the Players Lounge?
Poppers are in the game. Other party enhancements are not. If you are under the influence you will be asked to leave. We reserve the right to entry.
Is there a fee to attend events?
The Players Lounge is run by volunteers. No profit is made from events. All events will require a fee for the venue hire, organisation, blah blah blah (cleaning)…Depending on venue it will range between AU$25-35.
The Players Lounge is for men 18+ only. We foster a safe, inclusive, respectful space for adult connection.
No photos. No judgement. No pressure.
✉️ Contact: playersloungesyd@gmail.com
